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Saturday, May 29, 2010

Joseph Senior Year High School


I went out the other night with a bunch of moms who have children in their senior year of high school. Once the kids are into college, high school is done and the kids basically have a great six months. Daniel told me during his freshman year in college that he did not understand why everyone thought college was so great - in his last year of high school there was no responsibility, some interesting classes, and lots of time to hang out with your buddies - plus the the home cooking was excellent, and the laundry was done for you. What could be better?

After Joseph got into Amherst in December he pushed himself even harder at swimming. That spring he had to write a paper or do an internship after the AP's were over because there were no more classes for the month. I remember coming in to the kitchen one morning to get breakfast, and Joseph was hanging out getting ready for a late day at the Prep. He told me that he wanted to write his senior paper on the influence of politics during the Romantic era on the composers of the time. I just looked at him, sputtered out that that would be a great idea (it would certainly keep him busy for the next month) - and went to work. Some kids have big plans and ideas!

Friday, May 28, 2010

Joseph Fordham Graduation



This is graduation season. A year ago this weekend we were up at Middlebury for Daniel's graduation. Three years ago we were at Amherst for Joe's. Then there have been the high school graduations, the grammar school graduations, the nursery school graduations. I used to think that they were just days with little meaning. But now I look at the pictures, we were so full of pride, and so were the boys. So happy, and so forward looking. All their lives in front of them.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Joseph is going to Kenya

Kyle came home from school on Sunday. Tonight there are 20 kids are out on the patio with a bonfire, hanging out and talking (loudly!!) basically having a great time. The noise is nice. Kyle is leaving for Ecuador on Thursday for a Spanish immersion program.
The weekend before Joseph left for Africa he wrote an email with the heading "Joseph is going to Kenya", and invited his friends to come for a bbq and bonfire in the back yard. It was a nice night, like tonight.
Being a parent of around 20 year olds is hard.